i haven’t updated orange in over two weeks i’m a bad and im going to work on it right now and hopefully ill finish it tonight!
If you can’t use someones [nounself/neo] pronouns, then you need to ask about alternatives they’re ok with you using. Simply refusing to respect their pronouns just because you don’t like them is an act of transphobia and an intentional act of triggering dysphoria for them.Or! Just don’t talk about them.
There’s always this option.
I don’t know if this is the 5th or 6th TB reader I’ve directed to Orange but I will promo for homo cheer for queer that fic until I die.
excuse me i am having a feel
It’s messing people up, this social pressure to “find your passion” and “know what it is you want to do”. It’s perfectly fine to just live your moments fully, and marvel as many small and large passions, many small and large purposes enter and leave your life. For many people there is no realization, no bliss to follow, no discovery of your life’s purpose. This isn’t sad, it’s just the way things are. Stop trying to find the forest and just enjoy the trees.
Sally Coulter (via judygrimes)
#being alive to the world is enough (via wintercreek)
when a trans person is misgendered it hurts us bc it is a denial of our being
when a cis person is misgendered it hurts them bc “not looking like a boy/girl” is considered unattractive and disgusting - essentially, bc when a cis person is misgendered it makes them feel like they’re being likened to us